Sometimes we must accentuate our contrasting behaviors around others representative of a new way of behaving if people are to recognize or buy into those changes. If you merely skirt the opposite side of the line, trust me -it won’t be enough. For example, if you’ve been a selfish person most of your life, simply being “not selfish” probably won’t turn many heads, probably won’t change many people’s previous attitude towards you. It’s just the way it is. Once a person leaves a negative impression, in many cases it takes a lot of work to change it. And there are those people still, who will never by into it, who don’t want to see you in a different light for whatever reason [always ask yourself this question, what does this person have to gain or benefit -from resisting this new reality?]

Be the gray mouse in the corner, not the pink elephant in the middle of the room!

A homeless man is long forgotten by the world; He buys a lottery ticket and 🏆 wins; suddenly the phone never stops ringing! See how much of humanity is like? And there are other loves, other addictions. A certain percentage will come calling because you have money. A certain percentage will come calling because you’re surrounded by beautiful women. Certain percentage will come calling because you’re funny. A certain percentage will come calling because you are a genius at starting or managing a business. A certain percentage will come calling because you’re cool. All too often unfortunately, people are attracted to “what’s in it for them”.