Many of us cannot even seem to connect with [find] that certain person. We’re just flailing around, hoping [we get lucky]…. That’s what I did for decades! Until like some, I’ve just decided to stay-at-home 🤷‍♂️

So is it the right person or the right attitude and approach on our part that guarantees success in a relationship? I mean it’s our that 1 right person out there God has selected for us -or is it more about putting into practice what GOD teaches us with regard to how to treat others, how to feel about others?

Where do most people in this country go wrong in their relationships, their marriages? What usually brings a relationship to an end? What usually sustains one? Therein lies the rub! I look at Ana, and it looks like her marriage is going to last and lasmaintenance. Ana largely stays in place for family, and financial security -among other things. Her husband is stable, non-combative, is basically low maintenace. And, in spite of her disappointments, Ana probably suspects that a man like this is not easy to come by. Someone who has demonstrated a lot of tolerance through the decades, someone who appears to have no major hangups. This seems to be what relationship’s hinge upon. Is there measured relationships. Not that there isn’t any love. It’s just the so called “factors that weigh in”. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️