There are plenty of bitter people with good reason. But what about happy or grateful people without good reason?
First, you must understand a person’s heart. Who they are [good or bad apple], how they got there [why if they are bad], can they be retrieved [back to good]? But being good to people isn’t just about them, or results, it’s about us. Our souls as well.
I notice I can feel hot in cool weather and cool, or comfortable in hot conditions. IT’S ME WHO IN LARGE PART SEEMS TO DICTATE RATHER THAN CONDITIONS, OR CIRCUMSTANCES. SO WHY NOT WITH PEOPLE WHO IRRITATE, OR FRIGHTEN, OR…. ANYTHING ELSE FOR THAT MATTER?
“[WHAT] TO LET IN, [WHAT] TO NOT LET IN, THAT IS THE QUESTION”.
If you look far older than you really are and manage to keep a wonderful physique, then you have something that a lot of people don’t have. It’s rare to see an older man even though you are not, with a wonderful physique. So you look like an older man with a wonderful physique but you are young 😉
In many instances it’s not so much that life gets the better of us but that we ourselves get the better of us. Occurrences in life just happen to be the straw that breaks the 🐫 back. The icing on the cake, the cherry on top so to speak.