Don’t let malicious, condemning thoughts fester.

Alcoholics have to deal with life, their own basic human condition, and their alcoholism.

Took me a long time to reach a point where I wouldn’t lash out at people for doing things which hurt me. I would still go to people and talk to them about the hurt I endured. And then they would say that I should have spoke up for myself -which is all my ego needed to hear. I figured even if things don’t workout, even if things fall on a deaf ear, I needed to speak out if only for the principle of the thing. Now I’m beginning to realize:

•That outcomes do matter, sometimes more than the principle of the thing.

•That its pointless to speak out against people calm even hurt people if it’s not going to change anything for for the better for all parties included.

•That it is better to do our best to make things work between ourselves and others, and perhaps more often than not, that means keeping our thoughts and our feelings to ourselves.

•Just because I complain and criticize, in most cases doesn’t result in people changing, people change when they decide to.

•Hurting people gives them a opportunity to rebel, to justify their actions and thus avoid change. Anger and resentment fuel stubbornness and egotistical attitudes. While taking one on the chin often fuels guilt and remorse, which are the avenues for seeking change.

•Do you want to be right or do you want to get along with those you care about, and have them remain in your lives?

Make it work!

There is an epidemic of taking one another for granted going on in this country right now. Most of us passed by one another and pain no mind.

Peace -of-mind, serenity-of-heart!

I’ve had on numerous occasions the ability to receive something into my mind prior to it happening, and getting it right. Operating from the premise that there is going to be a future, It’s simply a matter of connecting with whatever that is going to be. I can say undoubtedly that that is possible.

If you should stumble across a crime, after the fact… and you reported to the police, and they are unable to find any evidence implicating anyone and in that crime, there’s a good chance that they will turn their focus to you.

I’m not trying to impress women, and I’m not trying to impress people in general so much as trying to help them when I speak in an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting.

If you find that you cannot rely on certain people, then stop trying to. Trust and dependability are not dependent on dependent upon how you happen to be related “to” someone,, but rather-the nature of your relationship “with” them.

You don’t get things like women and money. You put yourself in a certain position, and then they come.🤷‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Without sex as part of the whole process, some people cannot muster or maintain significant emotional attachment.

Now why would you trust somebody to make your food if you wouldn’t trust them with your own wallet? Doesn’t make a lot of sense doesn’t?

One must always keep their expectations lower than the reality in me, and around me.

Nobody has a perfect life NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY WORK AT IT! And as for the people unwilling to give it their all… 🤷‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Millions of people in this country throwing money away to see perfect strangers -when we wouldn’t even pay good money to see our own mothers.

What is the deal with people in this country worshipping other people?

When we stand around watching fights, with no other intention [to help] but to be entertained or to satisfy our base curiosity, we really are acting like 🐄s!

I don’t have what women are looking for. I used to think myself a failure. Now I realize I have a strong drive to give them what they don’t want [they have repeatedly failed to give me what I want, need]. A good many of the women I have met I don’t care for. At least not in the town I live in. I’m quite sure more than a few men feel as I do, have experienced what I have experienced.

Is there any problem that cannot be solved, resolved, surmounted, eventually turned to good?

The Bible States that christians will once again become persecuted In order for this to happen the number of christians must be reduced considerably and the number of anti christians increased significantly -how long this transition will take is anyone’s guess. 10 years? 100 years?

If you love life on Earth, you probably fear death, loathe death. If you loathe life on Earth, you probably welcome death 🤷‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

If I could, I would single handedly do away with everything destroying this country and our planet. Since man refuses to give up the disparity of classes and riches between himself and others, a fair question might be this: Can we have millionaires, and billionaires exist on this planet without destroying ourselves, and this World? You sorry son of a bitch’s, don’t you even care about the future of your own children, the future of our own children?

You see someone pushing an agenda that appears to be benign in nature.You ask them what sort of activities they do in their own personal lives to support their supposed good-nature, good intentions. They point out several causes they are involved with to lend credence to their position. So now I say calm even then this does not guarantee that their position does not have an ulterior motive, or a misguided motive.

All this exploding before us so that people can enjoy life, calm their fears, and court their status? I’m so tired of all this shallowness!

To have things; and what has that brought you? Are the feelings associated with them, spurred by them all you had hoped they would be? The the story GOD [fore]tells is otherwise.

The 👁 sees, sends a signal to the 🧠 -and then what? TROUBLE! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷‍♂️

This country is putting into place of foundation foundation that we the individuals can neither do without, nor protect ourselves from. We are vulnerable as individuals. To not have a choice and still be a part of society, to maintain some sense of… is wrong!!!!! But of course you people can’t see it because tbecause the persuasion is to trust.

I have made many mistakes. And I have taken many an inventory.. Perhaps it is why te human-condition comes so easily to me.

Years ago things on television commercials… we’re done with class -now, it appears, minimize cost to further boost profit margins and, capture as wide an audience as possible; man is less and less a respecter of age.