Which would you prefer for a for a partner? Positive, negative traits; scale 1-10?

+10 -10 traits

+2 -2 traits

0 0 traits

😱 Choose!

Alcohol is an excellent example of people willing to suffer if the payoff is significant enough – Transfer that over to relationships. Moth to the flame! The number of people willing to do so is increasing. It’s not a small number! The greater the payoff the more danger a person is willing to submit themselves to. Transfer that over to relationships.

Do not attempt to oversimplify, nor to presume to have a greater understanding of GOD’S ways than GOD HIMSELF! Regardless of the horse you and I witness were here of taking place in the 🌎

Some people keep their heads above water through the notion that the world is basically a good place. Some through the notion that the world is slowing tearing itself, one another apart, but that through their own loneliness, there own isolation from it, they are not apart of it’s demise; and they thank GOD for that! 🙏🏻

If you’re jealous of who somebody is and the attention it garners from others, become like them -and improve yourself!*

* Besides karma how do you know you’re not like them? What makes you so sure you’re less than them? What makes you so sure you’re not above them in character and persona? Other people, and what the world thinks of them versus you, is not the best measuring stick to go by -TRUST ME!

I’m under the impression I have evolved in some areas, not in others like a weed growing aimlessly. Certain areas I have excelled at while others I have hardly evolved at all in the past 30+ years. What gives? RESISTENCE! WE GROW IN THE AREAS WE ARE MOST WILLING -WILLINGNESS IS THE MIRACLE-GROW OF MENTAL HEALTH, CHARACTER… UNWILLINGNESS IS LIKENED TO PUTTING YOUR PLANT IN THE CLOSET, SHUTTING THE DOOR, REFUSING TO WATER IT!

There are a lot of people out there suffering, struggling, struggle income and they’re not exactly broadcast broadcasting it to the world. But on a regular basis, we get to see a glimpse of it through acting out behaviors, suicides, divorces… 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️😔

Some people’s lives are characterized [moreso] by what’s happening; while others lives are characterized [moreso] by what’s not happening 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️

For every commercial about money there should be a commercial about spirituality -what’s that, you say that would be shoving religion down people’s throats? Well they’re shoving commercials down the people’s throat that have involve money, commerce, I’m offended by that. And as far as shoving things down people’s throat, people being offended… Whoever said people know what is and isn’t best for them anyways!

I get the feeling that in order to write more succinctly about the ways of the 🌎 I have had to give up my abilities to function in it -as I have never felt a deeper understanding of it while at the same time a greater ineptness in it! ☺😔

Man consistently loses perspective.

Never cut corners with the people you love

It takes a great amount of something do not retaliate against someone you care deeply about think about who is more willing to do what is right then then to crumble to yours and their feelings. It’s similar to the situation GOD must endure every moment of every everyday FROM HIS children.

Fill your pet’s water bowl up as much as possible when you go out, you never know you’re something unexpected might come up. In fact karma do so even when you are in the home for the same reasons.

What percentage of children suffer severe psychological and emotional effects from their parents getting divorced? I’m thinking of MIKE!

A lot of people who have exceptional traits and abilities tend abilities, traits and abilities which cause them to be separate or to stand out from the main group, often exhibited or developed ether liimited or adversely affected social and emotional…

It’s what’s happening on the inside, and not what’s happening on the outside….

Man often times cares little for his fellow human being calm that is where it doesn’t concern him. And yet, where it does, man is often overly concerned. When man finally does take notice of his fellow man’s transgressions, his faults, he goes from apathy to overkill. For so many centuries for example, a man slapping a woman fell on deaf ears. Now they’re ready to string them up by their toes by their toes for the slightest infraction, as if it would make up for all those centuries turning a blind eye.You don’t think God sees both sides in a situation like that? Has empathy for not one but both parties? But not in the case of man.Not consistently anyways.

Most of us I think, are not very good at absorbing and relishing the moment – Especially the painful or negative ones. Even the so-called in consequential ones. So long as that clock is ticking on our lives, everything is consequential. 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

For many a human being, are choice in relationships is often tained. At some point we are forced to pay the consequences for such choices. Even now, at 57 years old I have these stupid thoughts of a relationship choices tainted with taboos or error. Human beings continually fall prey to these scenarios. But a very strong part of me is saying the hell with this nonsense, I am so tired of it!I look at celebrities for example, bolkama the longevity of their relationships patient ships in contrast to many of their peers. They probably have some relative soundness in their decision making and in what they themselves are able to bring to the table.I feel I need to start thinking along those lines more.

People have a tendency to raise their level under certain circumstances, but they cannot sustain sustain that level. Or, another way of looking at it is that they cannot concealed they’re underlying level. That is why it is a good idea to raise your level calm at your constant level.. Exceeded doing so with integrity of course, So that then when people look at you, what they see is really what they’re going to get.

Whether the storms of life; Truth-be-told, they rarely last! 🤷‍♂️

If you take people at face value only, you may be prone to judge them incorrectly, unwisely. Or, you may just hit the nail on the head!

If you can successfully utilize the template of another person’s spirit, persona, mentality to transpose[?] or transcend your own…. The very basic premise of what I am alluding to is learning by example or from a role model. In my case, people with an affable demeanor.

The evolution of technology allows us to further evolve with regard to the scientific realities around us. Somehow we need to be able to see further, and deeper, higher than our predecessors, otherwise…

Not everyone is a bad person calm and nor bad intentioned – They do however have low standards, or limited hopes!

Most people who are of the mind and character, who genuinely want to make a relationship worked generally succeed. I’m learning to recognize more and more my mixed feelings on this matter. Confused feelings on this matter regarding the safety and rational rationale of a relationship with another human. Some of us are given messages early on in life that it’s safe to seek, and have relationships with others. Others to the contrary. And of course this all gets confused with the experiences we encounter withunter when we do choose to pursue either reluctantly or vigorously, a relationship with another human being. My personal experience is that many of the people I encountered in my early life if are not much different from the people I have encountered later in life. Perhaps this is true for you as well. However, the message I received was that it wasn’t safe to have relationships with people. And yet, all of my life I’ve had this burning desire to be a part of something more than myself.

On the topic of divorce come maybe we should choose more wisely. 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️ Maybe we should also evaluate more closely our attitudes and beliefs regarding long term commitment. Maybe we should more closely evaluate our mental and emotional states going into such a commitment. If you’re looking for a long term commitment, stop choosing people losing people who have neither the desire or the ability to have one.*

*It’s amazing to me how so many people don’t know what they feel or how they feel

Writing about his experience, Clary said,

We were not even human beings. When we got to Buchenwald, the SS shoved us into a shower room to spend the night. I had heard the rumours about the dummy shower heads that were gas jets. I thought, ‘This is it.’ But no, it was just a place to sleep. The first eight days there, the Germans kept us without a crumb to eat. We were hanging on to life by pure guts, sleeping on top of each other, every morning waking up to find a new corpse next to you. … The whole experience was a complete nightmare — the way they treated us, what we had to do to survive. We were less than animals. Sometimes I dream about those days. I wake up in a sweat terrified for fear I’m about to be sent away to a concentration camp, but I don’t hold a grudge because that’s a great waste of time. Yes, there’s something dark in the human soul. For the most part, human beings are not very nice. That’s why when you find those who are, you cherish them.^[4]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Clary

People often disagree with one another regarding the opinion of their fellow human beings, humanity as a whole. THERE PERSONAL EXPERIENCES, IN MANY INSTANCES, “TRUMP” ALL OTHERS SINGLE OR COMBINED! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷‍♂️ While I have often stated “you can’t argue a person’s experience”, experiences related, experiences founded upon certain realities, ultimately form a concensus [just as those founded upon hogwash]; therefore, there is one person experience, and there is a vast expanse of experience. Is one more important than the other? Is one more true than the other? It is quite common for the individual to choose the experience that best compares with or supports their own. Some people however, tend to go with the experiences of the majority -with the hope of getting a more pervasive/sweeping view or understanding/depiction

IIf two people love each other, and one wants to stay together and the other 1 decides its best to but it’s best to leave; Is it because the person’s love is weak or is it because they’re Willis strong? Is it because their love is weak or their values are strong? Is it because their love is strong but their will is stronger?

Talent is one thing, a gift is another… and as for “hard work [perspiration]… NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE VALUE OF EITHER!