Two of the greatest examples of man’s capacity for error in terms of his/her perceptions regarding his fellow man [Ironically, in both instances the Jews were involved]:

1.The Jews and Jesus [His three year mission, and the resulting Crucifixion];

2. The Germans and Hitler [The Holocaust].

If every person guilty of a crime plead guilty, how many lawyers would be out of a job? How many people involved would be out of a job?

They say when a person loves something, they tend to do it better. When they enjoy something they tend to do it better. I think the most successful people with regard to relating to others are those that love, enjoy enjoy interacting with others. Wouldn’t you agree – Given my jaded experience with mankind, my attitude towards human-beinfs, and therefore the quality calm the success rate of my relations to other human beings veered ultimately on the side of failure.

More than just a small percentage of humanity have deep regrets regarding their actions. You should not feel alone, you should not feel special in that regard. But regret, and remorse may set you apart from some.

Nowhere in the book of Alcoholics Anonymous does it specify anything in our past which can borrow us from being a member. God said that not man!

There are 2 kinds of people in the world:

1) Those who have faults and care little or nothing of doing something about them (who can’t or won’t admit them);

2) Those who have faults and do (and can admit them).

Which is a better prospective partner:

1) The one who has few faults and is willing to do little about his or her remaining faults;

2) The one who has many faults and is willing to (eventually) address them all?

Who do we have a tendency to pick? #1 of course!

People, tend to be drawn to what they understand, what makes sense to them first, and what is right or sensible second. 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷‍♂️

Deprived

Complex – People who come out of a traumatic experience come even something which appears to be life threatening, often often develop a complex. People who came out of the depression for example. Is people who come out of an alcoholic or addicted family where there is neglect and/or premature responsibility placed on them, or insufficient love, security, nurturing. They go to one extreme or the other. Isn’t that what this function is at the heart of it all, too much or too little or too late or too early? Anything but getting it right! I realize now more than ever I have been lugging around a “COMPLEX” all of my life, along with a very big “CHIP”. A VERY BIGHOLE coupled with A VERY BIG GRUDGE” -in short, AVERY BIG COMPLEX!!! Unfortunately for myself, and millions of others, I have had numerous [types of] experiences resulting in multiple complexes!

Hole

Napoleon

The world with all its issues and then me with my issues – The perfect storm

And then the same issues I dealt with in the home are the same issues you generally encounter out in the world because people are generally the same.

There are many different realities in the world. What I mean to say is that there are many different mindsets and beliefs and missing awareness as well in varying cultures around this globe. Many people of which don’t question or have a thought about that particular realithat particular reality which they are raised under.

To go through life not knowing; is it innocence or a living terror? Some people have some idea of what’s happening in life. Are they any better off than those who don’t? Well I guess that all depends on whether or not what they recognize is worth noting, or worth discarding. 🤔

People are generally interested in a level approach, or an approach that raises them or causes them to look upwards. Of course people with esteem issues are often interested in looking downwards (upon others, or prefer to see things negatively). You Rick, come at people from different angles. When you should come at them either from a level perspective or from a perspective that raises them or causes them to look upward with respect and hope.

Some people do things for money, some people do things to make a difference in the lives of their fellow human beings; most of us are somewhere in between. Somewhere closer to one or the other.

The truth, as opposed to a fact, NEVER CHANGES -and much to our own dismay! Which is why it keeps coming back around much to our own chagrin. The only one who can alter a truth is GOD HIMSELF -MIRACLES ARE SUCH! Lazarus for example died, NOTHING COULD BRING HIM BACK -EXCEPT GOD IN HIS INFINITE LOVE, INFINITE POWER! 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

We must be pleasant in our approach and attitude towards one another -not servile or scraping.

There are many different types of human-beings in the 🌎. So 🤔 DON’T EXPECT ANY MORE, AND DON’T EXPECT ANY LESS! 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷‍♂️😌😔☺🥰🙃😑😩😆😴🤨😳😤🤬

How many of us have encountered stone cold killers without even knowing?

Where am I at in my feelings towards my fellow human-being on a scale of serial killer to Saint? 1-100 [you’re typical human-being representing a score of 50]:

60

I’ll use Superman as an example, he could save millions of people, kill one and be remembered for that. Be put in prison for the rest of his life. I could write one bad post on here and be remembered for that; hated by a certain group for having offended.

People go through spells in reaction to circumstances and situations. If you just ride them out, don’t allow yourself to get all wrapped up in the moment with them, them come in most cases people will bounce backup. And you will not have a negative memory to go along with it.

People can hurt you, and have a short memory about it. But if you hurt them, even in retaliation to they’re hurting you, many times they’ll have a very long memory. So try to avoid this if you have any inclination about a long term relationship with this person.

When you hurt somebody, and you feel bad about it, you can bet that you are going to undergo a period with them where they are are they going to be sensitive or resentful and provoke you further.

Even people who deal in excess, hoard, is hoard, have a basic need underlying their voraciousness! In other words, they like everyone else have a drive as well as a need as we all do to act to survive -in spite of their excessive… in spite of how we feel about them or what we think of them! Think about it 🤔 A constant, and a variable in their case!

When you get it straight in your head what you need to do to get along with others; what people require of you to please them; what you should avoid doing to displease them; what you need to do to please God; what you shouldn’t do to displease God, And make that your priority above all; find that common ground with regard to everything above, that gray area, that overlap; keeping in mind God as the priority -YOU’VE UNDERSTOOD BASICALLY ALL THERE IS TO UNDERSTAND, ALL THAT IS MOST IMPORTANT ABOUT LIFE HERE ON EARTH!

Take a dog to another dog’s house comet to another dog’s turf and see how that dog acts. Then reverse the roles, and see how the dog visiting now acts on its own turf.

You can always tell what kind of people live in a neighborhood by how clean there you clean their yards and the streets ar

So if a man is married and has children, and he goes out on the family and late and has sexual relations with another woman and starts another family, which family is he obligated to as a parent as head or the household?

In 57+ years on this planet, a person can hurt a lot of people; and/or help alot!

If “X” doesn’t fail [didn’t work out (quite) as you had planned] than “Y” probably doesn’t succeed either (it’s the way the universe, GOD’S universe works)*. As I’ve said previously you got to know when to lose and when to win. Poker players know this and so do con men.

As long as I continue to have mixed views, mixed feelings towards the human race, it’s probably best I remain single and to myself.

I’m watching this movie called “Stormy Monday” with Sting, Sean Bean, Tommy Lee Jones and Melanie Griffith. One of the things that strikes me about the movie is that one of the character’s name is Cosmos and I know one of the other actors in the movie, who played on “The Highlander” -their real name is James “Cosmos”. Will anyways come 20 or 30 minutes into the movie, Sean Bean is sitting in a restaurant being served by Melanie Griffith, Next, she’s at the table serving the actor whose real name in life is Cosmos. They looked like a couple of real winners as portrayed in the movie – Anyways, you know something’s gonna happen during this scene… So when she takes their order, looks at 1 and then the other and asks is there anything else, and then there’s that lapse in time for a moment, where one of them is staring at her and she’s staring at him, and just a second before he answered her this this thought came into my head “Sit on my face”, and just a second after that thought came into my mind, guess what the character 😅 said, “Sit on my face”. Psychic 🔮 abilities truly exist! Never saw this movie before -i’m certain of it!

*7 or 8 years ago something didn’t work out for me and it bothers me to this day periodo this day. But when I realized that if that hadn’t worked out the way it did, then something else probably wouldn’t have worked out the way it did. And I would much rather have things the way they are then the way I would have had them turned out -when I really think about it 🤔

How many of us exercise for example with a genuine concern and care for ourselves?

How many of us exercise so that we can attract the opposite sex and the perks that go along with whoever it is we should attract?

Whenever I ask a person what they’re looking for in a partner, they always give a list of the things they want. And that is why their relationships fail more often than not these days.

Fat is the botox of poor people.