If you don’t think a lot of men do what they do for their woman simply because of the way she looks like and the pleasure she brings…. Or vice versa, a woman for a man who is a good money maker and… brings to the relationship a nice house and a nice car… best foodstuffs. What do these things have to do with love? There are people who can love just as much and even more who don’t have all these things to offer. It makes several arguments. People love nice things as well as the people that bring them. On the other hand, certain people have no use for nice things -they just love the person without them. Are you capable of such a love?
A lot of women are taught by their mothers to use their beauty and their sexuality to to garner a good life. A lot of women recognize very early on that the traits God has endowed them with half power and that power can be used to their advantage and benefit. But who gave you that power? God! As the old saying goes “Who I am is God’s gift to me. What I make of myself is my gift to God.” So what are you going to do with the gifts God has given you? Are you going to use them to make a great life for yourself (and your kids) and nothing more?
Parents always use kids and family to justify their avarice and excess. The fact of the matter is regarding many of these people is that they would live the same way if they were single.
You’ve heard of women who refuse to have children and the stigma behind it?? Oh they’re so selfish they wanted all for themselves. Or they’re so vain they want to keep their body nice and slender… What’s the point? I don’t know you tell me, does this apply to you or not?