0716212327: The trick with people, with women, is you have to get them attached emotionally (many women have such a hope for that fairytale life* – and more than just a few men play on this). Some men will generally stick around until they get what they want and put up quite an effort in many instances. But this is not an emotional attachment (not a mature one anyways), it’s a physical one in many cases. Many men operate from a sense of desperation when it comes to sex. Many women on the other hand operate from a sense of aloofness. Now from a financial perspective… the roles are often reversed!

Many-a-woman figure men are a dime-a-dozen. While many-a-man figure (act as if) they’ll probably never get laid again (unless they really really try). Ever sit home with your car in the driveway and think nothing of going anywhere – that is until the cars in the shop for a week? Many women are of the frame-of-mind that the car is always in the driveway; while many men are of the frame-of-mind the car is always in the shop! 😆

*I’ve seen many-a-woman go after the same type of man over, and over, and over again refusing to change their MO. And of course the result is (almost) always the same. Women and men are in essence, cut from the same cloth – at best, just different ends. Oftentimes, men and women both get hurt in these situations because their motives are suspect 🤔. One’s intentions may be benign, but their motivations are self-serving. And this leaves us vulnerable to “the kill”.

•Title credited to book by John Gray of same title.

You accept people as they are or you alienate them. You either let them in or they go away (sooner than later in most cases).