I’m as tired of women being cautious of me as a man -as women are of being hit on by men. I’m flat out sick of it! I remember about 20 years ago walking through the parking lot across from the University and as I approached this car this woman hit the locks on her door. Aside from being insulted I thought 🤔 “this woman has no judge of character”. How many people do we miss judge simply because we miss judge their character? How many of us are so concerned with our own welfare that it really doesn’t even matter?

Try to get up your wind as quick as you can and then quit.. Take a break until you feel you can go again… Repeat… Pound into your body that growth of the heart and cardiovascular system.

On the days when you don’t feel like going to the gym tell yourself “you’re gonna stick around for about 10 minutes… And go as light as you can.” Tell yourself we’re gonna sit down and have a smoothie…. Once you get there… A lot of times where we fail is “to start”.

If it appears at times that I am hard on women… I’m a man attracted to women who finds a lot of women in our society who appear have issues with men. I wouldn’t presume to know what it’s like to be a woman dealing with men. So please show me the same sensibility -and don’t presume to know what it’s like to be a man dealing with women. You may find this very hard to believe but most women treat women differently from men -and visa versa. You may also find this hard to believe but I’d like to think that I treat men and women and women more or less the same. As a matter of fact, I think a lot of women take issue with me treating them as human beings rather than as women.