Treat people the way they treat others long enough -and sooner or later they’re going to get resentful.
(Many) Women (cherish) the right to say “no” almost as much as they hate being told “no” (from 25 or so years ago)🤷♂️ After my partner’s children disrespected me repeatedly, and their mother failed to step in, and I told her “if she did not support me”… well, she never did! Several months later I lost interest interest sexually. Hearing no night after night… You should have heard some of the insinuations and insults out of her mouth! Some women hate hearing “no”!
Let’s face it, on a on a massive scale – It is my personal experience that most people at one point in time or another, want thing’s just a little bit better (or alot), just a little bit more than what they’re willing to give. That’s the nature of the EGO! That’s the definition of selfishness and self centeredness -as opposed to selflessness and others-centeredness 🤷♂️ One example is out out in the work place… Out in the world in general. Cashiers at the Walmart and other stores around town who who are unwilling to acknowledge you -as if they themselves were waiting to be acknowledged first. People at 4 away stops (to your left) arriving there at the same time, or a little later -and cruising through before you rather, than waiting their turn. Or my all time favorite, stopping to allow someone to cross at a across walk and then I’m not bothering to acknowledge you at all for doing so -and when you’re at a crosswalk standing there, they don’t bother to stop at all. That’s what I live with every day! Pomp and ignorance! Oh, and there are plenty of other things!