It’s a lot harder to take advantage of people who give of themselves freely give of themselves freely -It’s people who are very narrow in their offering and they’re giving who quite easily feel taken advantage of.

Just as people who are humble are much harder to offend than people who are arrogant.

I have met women who clearly have specific wants and needs. But when it came to my specific wants and needs they were either unwilling or unable to meet that meet them.

Or perhaps they were waiting to have their wants and needs met first by me. Typical behavior for an immature, selfish self-centered individual.

I’ve met many women who more or less have a set routine of giving. But when asked to do something outside of it – they are either incapable or unwilling. They basically did the things they wanted to and avoided the things they didn’t want to do. That doesn’t sound much like love to me. In my more recent relationships I’ve come to recognize love as -often doing things for people we don’t necessarily want to do. Men (and many women -only the more selfless ones however) are notorious for making sacrifices for their partners and their 👪.

It’s just a guess, but it seems to me that because of my low income, many of the women I dated didn’t feel the sense of respect for me I felt I deserved as a human being and as a person who, in many cases would go to great lengths to try and meet their needs even though I was highly limited in a financial sense. It may not be a very nice thing to say but in a lot of cases this is the attitude I was dealing with seem to be that of you meet my criteria first my criteria first and then I’ll go ahead and play ball with you regarding yours.

I think a lot of women also have a tendency to to weigh their options. When a guy when a guy isn’t meeting up to their expectations they tend to have an attitude in certain cases of I can do better and I will-bye. Having options doesn’t give you the right to be a cold, pompous ass. To some people human beings are like tomatoes, pick only the perfectly-ripe, firmest ones. I dated a gal in her early twenties, when I was in my early thirties… Is completely shallow. She would talk about anatomical body parts of a man -as if she were squeezing an avocado. We would have sex and afterwards she would make comments like “I needed that” cold cold cold. She lied to me on numerous occasions and after the fact simply said we’re not seeing each other any more so what is it matter. She once told me “get a clue”. One time I opened up and had a real laugh about something -she looked at me as if I was weird. She shamed me!

I’m learning that a lot of the women I dated when I was younger were very immature and selfish (as was I -but atleast I was trying -more than they were so it seemed)”. Now that I’m getting to know I need to know older women of my age and my later years of life….

*2 things I heard is a young adult male:

•You tried too hard**

•You’re too honest**

**A lot of women like what I guess could be termed of challenge. They don’t like a man who just lays out on the porch like an old hound dog. Or who comes when they’re called. In my personal experience it seems a lot of women would rather have an asshole than a push over for a partner. A piece of advice my old man gave me many years ago was this:

“When it comes to women, it’s better to be an S.O.B. than a fool”.

I’ve known women who seem very unselfish -but then I discovered it was more or of a routine where they had these set behaviors they exhibited. When a situation calls for them to do something above and beyond or different… they became agitated and their true nature, that of selfishness, would come out as well. I’m sure I’ve seen this behavior with men as well -but for me it seems to hit closer to home in the dating sector. My aunt would be another example of such behavior -she’ll do this this, this and this voluntarily, but don’t ask her to do this, or this, or this… or forget it!

Eventually there will be no such thing as overlap of actors at all. No type-casting – Because there will be so many actors in the business there won’t be room for anyone to make more than one movie. Besides that, they will start using human beings who don’t exist through technology to fail rolls.

And what about cloning… Lawrence Olivier anyone?

And music! What happens when technology can make sounds that the human vocal chords cannot?? Who’s gonna wanna go back to listening to people?

Picture never having to watch the same movie twice because there’s a billion of them to choose from.

Picture of the world being flooded with so many different wordifferent words that you can just pick anything out of the air and type it into Google and something will come up – I wrote this in for instance 20 years ago and it’s already starting to come true. Some of the stupidest names or accidental names you type in with an error and something comes up

I’ve heard from women on a number of occasions that when they were younger they thought they were “hot shit”.. I continue to meet women in this age group who act as such. Can you imagine the ones that land a modeling deal or acting career?

If only we had higher moral standards and greater resolve… many of the things existing in the world today would fade away.

Why do some problems seem to go away and others seem to continually linger?

•The people in power to change or resolve them see little need to since it doesn’t affect them directly

• Since we are a highly materialistic society many of our decisions are based upon the need to prosper at the expense of others or to maintain an advantage over others – Oftentimes, when others are down -it makes us feel better about our situation rather than actually doing something about the issues in our lives 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

A man on his way to work drives past and 1st passed an elderly woman with a flat tire and thinks nothing up. The following week he sees a beautiful young girl in the same predicament, pulls over, fixes the tire coma gets a phone number…. Do you really think this man gives a damn about you? Do you even care yourself? I tell you come a lot of women think they are very different from men but in a lot of ways nothing could be further from the truth. Cut from the same cloth -best case scenario opposite ends. People in it for themselves. And when one gets burned… Shakes his head 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

Did God really find it necessary to make sex so pleasurable pleasurable when he was completely against us acting immorally with respect to it! Against abortion. Knowing how weak we are in the face of anything pleasurable! I mean was it:

•One of the greater tests of our moral resolve, or;

•Was it something more simple, like the the fact that man would have no drive to procreate without such an insatiable desire to prompt 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ (6 of one half dozen of the other -there would be a problem either way.). I mean are we that inept, lacking in…????

In the finite, or the inferior system, or worse yet in the United States… In order for one person to win 10 people or a 100 people or a 1000 people have to lose.

Every day millions of people buy water and tickets it’s-do they even know that the only 2 people that are ever going to win is someone other than themselves in the government? Don’t you give the government enough of your money already?

The government’s already making money off of:

•DUI’s

•Student loans

•The lottery

•Going after people to pay for child support so they don’t have to pay out welfare

If the government can do things like have lotteries to make money why can’t individuals do the same? Why can’t they have raffles to make money for themselves? It’s an easy way to make money.

Money is not the answer to all your problems. Most likely come it isn’t even the answer to your main problem – It’s just an easy way out.

Why are people willing to throw their hard earned money away on something that will never yield an equal,, or better that return? Are we that obsessed with money? Are we that disillusioned about the idea that we’re going to win?

I did a breakdown of the gross national product or the… How much money this country has…. Divided by 300 million people and it came out that each one of us should have about a 130 or $260,000 Depending on whether you go with the GNP or the NDP? That’s how much money someone else has in their pockets that should be in yours. This includes you, your spouse, and each of your children.

True Heaven you would never want to leave. There are many things in this life we conside to be Heaven or close to it.. For a young man, for example, the idea is often… But in that particular case they indulge themselves for a little while and then go back to other more frivolous engagements -doesn’t sound like Heaven was all that after all. 🤷‍♂️

With all the changes taking place in this country are we becoming stronger as a nation? Are we becoming more United as a people? With all this gay rights… lowering of ratings for movies protecteing our children, pot being legalized, taking prayers out of the school, or removing the 10 commandments from our government buildings… this and that and the other all going on, are we actually becoming stronger as human beings are more divided? Because I walk out my front door and nobody says hello, everybody’s looking down at their phone and ignoring one another. I do not see this country getting stronger with all these changes going on! Sodomy being perfectly normal and acceptable as a way of life in this society!*

Whoever said the road to hell was paved with good intentions is an idiot. It’s better to do the wrong thing with the right intention than the right thing with a wrong intention.

*Sometimes our intentions are right but our thinking is all wrong.

There’s always at least a grain of truth in every one of these writings-I guarantee it