I’m a huge fan of my professional sports teams. But I’ve never been very good about watching them lose.
As a child, playing various games, I recall losing on almost every occasion. And I would get angry! Feel like a loser! Feel like God was against me!
II notice winning is like a drug to me. It helps me to adjust my downward emotional Statis emotional States. I learned this a very long time ago-that that for me, watch watching my team win is a high whereas watching them lose is a loyet the maloose is a low. One represents the sensation of the drink while the other represents the hangover. 1 represents the high, while the other represents the other represents the withdraw.