I think the main problem for me and my relationships is that I learned a long time ago about what a relationship could look like.. Possibly what it should look like From an intellectual standpoint-what people had to offer was unacceptable to me acceptable to me -in spite of the fact that what I had to offer probably wasn’t acceptable to them either. Did you know that people can desire the highest standards from others well at the same time walking around with entirely low standards themselves 🤔. I mean to say come a person can be entirely aware of very high standards of conduct, expect them from others, yet not have the slightest inkling of them -insofar as they themselves are concerned 😟