All I’m saying is question your own motives!

No matter how cold the world grows, there will always be people in it resistant to that trend! Sadly, most will not be! They, the latter, are the ones who “buy-in” to what is going on around them, they are the ones who by choice or by instinct live by “an-eye-for-an-eye”, “I’ll treat you the way you treat me” and so-on-and-so-forth. These are the weaker, more impressionable, more reactionary, and in some cases the weaker of our kind.

People often operate from 2 vantage points:

1) What they want

2) What they don’t want

Our values, and how much self we operate from in general, determine those parameters; the very foundations of these two! You take a woman for instance choosing a man. You take a look at what many women think they’re worth externally; (which by the way oftentimes is very different from what they think they’re worth internally); take a look at their values, how much self they operate from; and you will see these patterns. Your typical drop dead gorgeous woman with low self esteem and a great deal of self centeredness for example – What kind of men do they generally go after or settle for? Then try the same thing with their male counterparts. See what I mean about motive?

Right or wrong, like it or not, sensible or insensible, if we are to get along, thrive in atleast some of our relationships, THERE MUST BE SOMETHING IN US FOR PEOPLE TO TAKE HOLD OF -OTHERWISE WE/THEY SIMPLY DRIFT AWAY!

I must find a way to reshape… Many years of being judged, belittled, criticized [(and neglected) these working in tandem or unison] 😔 I’m afraid have turned me into a “chief critic”. Being hurt treated as such, has only served to hurt, prolong the alienation by acting in kind. It is so difficult for some of us to tear away from our roots 😢 😪

Jesus says everything [me->regardless of appearance to the contrary) the worst of the worst)] serves a useful purpose -otherwise God could not allow it to exist! 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♀️

All of the sin (being) generated by man, I believe has a cumulatively negative affect on an otherwise perfect 🥰 universe created by God. I’m speaking about something of a spiritual, aura, karmic sort of phenomenon -is perhaps on the horizon. Something catastrophic taking shape in our universe.