Many people lack the ability to solely or strictly feel, or act regarding a situation or scenario; that is, without being influenced by previous experiences, and residual… thereof.
It’s nice when one’s “inescapable fate” has a positive connotation; With hardly no effort at all for example, someone becomes a millionaire, an actor, a singer, falls into the thing in life they love to do most. Whereas when one’s inescapable fate has a negative connotation; hard as they try, they cannot seem to escape addiction, life in the ghetto, a job or jobs they absolutely loathe, relationships that go no where [but down] 🤷♂️ But if you think about it in a spiritual sense rather than a worldly one, one really isn’t much better than the other; I believe however, that it’s all a matter of how you handle it or receive it; the path we choose as a result; the person we [choose or allow our selves to] become!
There’s:
1) Changing who we are, and;
2) There’s acting out of character.
Changing who we are, in most cases takes a very long time, and a lot of work.
Acting “out of character” can happen in a split moment.
Actually, our behaviors, attitdues largely dictate; when, and how, and how much we are rewarded by the 🌎 And most of us wish to be rewarded handsomely, and regularly. And since for example, in the United States, patience is patience is not a virtue. Which path do you think most people in this society take in an effort to receive reward?