We have inside of us a specific mental and emotional mechanisms -spiritually based if you will; These mechanisms more or less monitor our attitudes and our behaviors. When these mechanisms are in place and operating properly, they distinguish our various behaviors and attitudes -tell us which ones are acceptable, and which ones require adjustment, change, or elimination altogether. When these mechanisms are not in place and operating properly, you have prolonged episodes where harmful, unacceptable behaviors and attitudes go unchecked, and therefore remain in place wreaking havoc on us and those around us

Look at every occurrence in your life, every choice you have made in your life as well, reflecting on your past, ask yourself if “You are worse off, or better off for it”. In addition, you may want to look at all your fretting, all your worrying, and ask yourself, “Was it all for not, or legitimate”.

90% of people are capable of performing performing physically, sexually -which is why, much to our own chagrin, and GOD’S, we are so successful at it. Where we are not nearly as successful, and much to our own chagrin, and GOD’S, is in the emotional, the spiritual, the mental parts of our being. Given the care we take of ourselves physically [not to harm], that is, not to undo what God has done, what GOD has provided, our bodies more or less function as they should. Apparently, in the case of many of us, our defiant wills, our parting of ways with GOD’S reasoning, does not affect so much our physical performance as it does our mental, emotional, spiritual performance. Most people for example, are capable of engaging in sex; Yet when it comes to the emotional, mental, spiritual aspects of their relationship, the success rate is markedly lower!