The quicker you learn, and in the more areas you learn…
Most people, given enough time can learn anything. The problem is, man’s not willing to wait for his fellow man in many instances. He cares more for the result rather than the effort. He cares more for what’s in it for him rather than the process.
In my personal experience, when you want a woman too much, it appears to put them off. I’ve seen a lot of men treat women like they can take them or leave them, and that seems to maintain their interest. Albeit a painful interest. And yet that’s what seems to maintain their interest in contrast to a man who simply allows his feelings to be known. It seemed to recall something in psychology about many women having issues with being contented, at peace once they have what should be a very nice relationship and life. Bad boy syndrome and all that. Issues with worthiness, esteem… pain and suffering… confusion with… How else would you explain men with issues having just as much luck getting a partner as men who don’t, perhaps even more 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏻♀️ Far more people garner interest from the opposite sex, than what is warranted. 😏