For most of us it is probably a good idea to keep our opinions to ourselves most of the time -at least that’s my personal experience.

When it comes to love all you can do is your part. As the song goes, sometimes it’s enough, sometimes it aint.

They say there’s a window for learning a language or how to speak. The same is probably true in a great number of areas of a human being through the age of 20 or 25 or 30 or 35 or 4040 depending on what area were talking about here. But the bulk of a human being’s foundation probably is is is best formed in a firmed in the 1st 20 years. If a person doesn’t get it during this time, they are essentially resigned to their own resources, a world largely indifferent or frigid, and GOD. The thing about God is that HE’S probably not gonna give you too many pointers on how to thrive in the world. Of course the world itself will gladly give you lessons, It’s up to you to turn those lessons around and make them work for you [instead of them as is so common]. Healthy parents with a deep love and genuine concern for their children cannot be replaced by the world. Healthy parents who teach their children to thrive in the world, Healthy parents with selfish motives, but but still with good intentions cannot be replaced by the world. Healthy and loving as most parents are, arkama they will still attempt to to school their children in the ways of surviving and thriving in the material world. Most of us gladly accept out of course.