I recently came to the conclusion that đ¤ the issues arising between various members in AA and myself stems from my speaking to them first-and-foremost as people, rather than as Alcoholics. A dear friend of mine once commented, “You go to AA but your not of AA” -Maybe she was right.
We all have strengths; and we all have weakness; but it is apparent that some feel certain strengths carry more weight than others; while certain weaknesses carry less weight than others -thus placing themselves (usually), not so much in a position of neutrality, or equality, but that of superiority!
“We’re spiritual-beings first, human-beings second, and Alcoholics third”
I determine what my motives and my motivations are -YOU CAN’T TOUCH THEM! God made it that way!
I, and I alone determine what my motives are – NOT YOU!
Apparently, there are a lot of people out there in the world who can read minds đ¤ˇââď¸
You can purposefully forcefully addict someone -but it won’t have the same effect on a spiritual level (since the addictive process would have to be strictly, solely voluntary for that to happen).
When people are on heavy doses of prescription meds, and rightly so, do you suppose it harms or interferes with their relationship with God as well -I think God can discern between a valid medical issue and active-addiction.
“If you’re working a piss-poor recovery program while seeking prescription meds to take the edge off… you’re still using!” GOD -FROM SOME 25 OR SO YEARS AGO!
“Until I could accept my alcoholism, I could not stay sober; unless I accept life completely on lifeâs terms, I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and in my attitudes.“*
ACCEPTANCE WAS THE ANSWER -CHAPTER 16
*Excerpt from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous- Chapter 16, pg.417.