People have a very different appearance when fear is at the forefront and anger takes a back seat versus versus anger in the forefront and fear taking the back seat.

Perhaps the only way to have even a shadow of the right perspective is to know everything.

Everyone has a debt they owe -Shawshank Redemption?

Just as an example, how many times have I taken my eye off the road just long enough to have a serious accident – but for whatever reason, there was no car there at the wrong place at the wrong time.