The problem of the unprecedented amount of change going on in this country. The unprecedented amount of effort taking place in this country:
• It’s all been done for profit. Not for love. Not for unselfishness. Not for improvement as human beings.
Many people in this country believe they can get by without character. I grew up with a similar frame of mind 57 years prior – I didn’t know little about character nor did I feel the importance of it. It’s a recipe for all sorts of trouble actually.
“WHERE IS GOD?” Have you asked yourself that lately? When was the last time you thought of GOD? The things in life you consider yourself successful at -can you say with certainty that you half-ass them? Why should you successful in the areas you do then? Why should you expect GOD to take you seriously if you don’t take HIM seriously?
Is a good wife someone who sticks around because they have nowhere else to go? Can’t afford to leave?
Women in these marriages where the man brings home an income, is just low maintenance enough, and is just enough out of reach emotionally to keep make the woman feel comfortable enough about who she thinks she isn’t. We see this sort of pattern over and over and over:
• Money masquerated as security;
• There’s not a lot of life in the relationship but there’s enough lack of death for it to survive;
• Many women feel unlovable or unworthy so when their man begins to lose interest it suits them, in a sick sort of way, in a conflicting sort of way. I’d do anything for Ana -which her husband won’t. And there she sits with him and here I sit alone. He won’t do everything for her; he’s emotionally detached; and hes got a healthy retirement and a home. And she supposedly loves him -more than she loves me. Whenever I’ve tried to give a woman everything I could, it never seemed to get me any more appreciation or respect. TRUE STORY!!!!!! There are books written about the human spirit, personality. Many are not pretty! I don’t necessarily respect the way Anna’s husband treats her but apparently it seems to fit. God knows my approach never has. Not that I’ve been saying. Apparently you have to have the right combination of give and not give. Is emotionally available in tonight emotionally available. I’ve witnessed these things in relationships between men and women ever since I was a child. GOD help us, GOD save us from the sickness in [the majority of] our relationships which doesn’t allow for the worst of it; but doesn’t allow for the best of it either! 😔